Start with an icebreaker. The person you're talking to will have a chance to respond
Thoroughly read the person's profile. The dating app prompts can give you a lot of information on what you can ask about
Make your opening message no longer than three sentences. Personalize it, but don't start off too strong
The conversation should feel balanced between sharing information about yourself and expressing an interest or curiosity about your match
Take initiative with your ask, but make plans collaboratively. Find something you both want to do
Use the apps to improve your communication skills. If you're not getting matches, maybe change your pictures, rewrite your prompts or send new conversation starters